Most of us struggle to admit we are real alcoholics. Just like everyone else, we dislike feeling different or unusual. We want to be normal, regular people. So we spend a lot of time and energy trying to prove that we can drink like normal, regular people. We believed that somehow, someday we will be able to control and enjoy our drinking. Since we cannot, we fail over and over again. It is astounding how long we continue trying to prove that we aren’t alcoholics! Some of us do it until we lose our minds – or die.
A.A. has a simple programme that works. It’s based on one alcoholic helping another. Because of our own drinking experience, we can be uniquely useful to other alcoholics.